Normal girls don't lie because they don't have to and if you indo girlfriend is lying to you; it means that she is not behaving normally. Usually, she will say she has "problems at home", but don't take her word too seriously: Chances are she is angry because one of the expats she is dating stopped sending her money, or because she fought with her Indonesian guy.6) When you meet your girlfriend's friends, you realize that all of them have a rich expat boyfriend, and , and you even feel that she thinks it's normal. If that’s what you want in a man, by all means go for it. And if he IS shy, he will be even more passive, withdrawn, and timid if you become the pursuer. It meant that if she wanted to call someone, she had to type a password first... Then, wherever she would go, she would always, always take her phone with her: In the toilet, in the shower, in the kitchen...She would never forget it, and if she did, she would come back in a hurry to get it, and she would ask me, worried: Did you take a look at my phone?I don't think you should put to much emphasis on it, but still, if you have the feeling that for her . You feel that your Indonesian girl is not being faithful, for tons of reasons that adds up.You may be in love and you are doing everything you can to believe her lies, but it actually makes you feel down to think you can be that stupid.
But the question you should ask is, “Is he a SUITOR? If he’s not ready to date you or ask you to be his exclusive girlfriend, why are you even thinking about him? Eventually, he will have to do something to close the distance or you will get tired of it going nowhere. Remember, you want to find a long-term relationship. But how will you know that he is the right man for you if you hardly see him? : You are an expat living in Jakarta involved in a relationship with an Indonesian girl? We know that the bar scene in Indonesia is very adventurous, and though it is easy to meet a decent girl, you may also end up with someone whose only interest is to suck you dry. There are a lot of expressions to designate these girls but my favourite term is "Professional Girlfriend": Her job, the one activity that earns her revenue, is to be your girlfriend, or to make you believe she is. There are some easy things to spot in her behaviour that will help you guess if she's faking the whole thing or not.I listed 10 of them and I hope they will help you realize if yours is on the game or not: 1) You in Jakarta: To be honest, if it was a massage parlour, a club in Kota, a bar in Blok M, or a karaoke, there is a 99% chance she is a fake. Your only chance is that she was in such a place by accident, but that never really happens.7) The sex part is tricky: It is very easy for a girl to fake orgasm, or at least pleasure.