This is someone you’re, well, hoping to sleep with or be in a relationship with. Re-read your messages once before you send them to make sure there are no glaring mistakes.You’re looking for a potential mate, not a pen pal.I’m not talking about anonymous trolls — I’m talking about how you represent yourself.Listen, I have no problem if you want to add 1 inch or subtract five pounds. But, if the profiles I read are any indication, EVERYONE seems to be “a world-class traveler who’s happy chilling at home on a Friday or hitting the town, loves to explore ethnic restaurants, and enjoys outside activities like hiking, kayaking, or biking.” And then when you go on a date, they’d rather Netflix and chill, or they enjoy sleeping in on a Saturday and lounging around eating pizza. It’s just that you don’t want to misrepresent yourself.They just want to flirt and chat with people and have no desire to actually meet them in person.You want to weed these people out as quick as possible. The minute you do, you send him a cute text with an adorable kissy face.
I used it back in my single days and found it very effective for reaching out to many people who I wouldn’t have otherwise been able to contact or interact with.When you’re smitten, you want to know and learn everything about your new flame, and it can come across as needy and smothering.Do what normal people do and just silently stalk them from the shadows! Nobody should be stalking anybody.) As with just about everything else, there’s a right way to message people through email and texting.), it’s so nice to be able to have a good base of etiquette and manners.That doesn’t mean I use them all the time, but at least I know what they are.While both men and women do this, I find the ladies do it a bit more.