Look at the person you want to meet, look at what’s going on around them and look for the right time to start acting. In fact, most women have a very good peripheral vision that they use to check out men without appearing to obvious.So just because she isn’t starring at you does not mean she does not find you attractive.
And then all of a sudden you see that attractive man looking at you, or that gorgeous woman just standing there.
Eventually you will get to the point where you don’t even have to think about it, you will know it instinctively. Try not to go by general rule of 3 second eye gazing.
Now you’re ready to get present in the moment and your surroundings. A lot of people are shy and some women don’t feel comfortable keeping an eye contact with a man they don’t know for a long time.
This self acceptance is just the beginning and it is enough in its energy to get the ball rolling. Consider the possibility that as a human being you are more than just OK.
Think about yourself as a lovable spiritual being in a human body.
But let’s be honest…if you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re not interested in playing games. There were awkward formal introductions, sweet smiles across the table, and actual conversations to learn about one another – rather than just an impersonal Google or Facebook search.