If they are not interested in doing the legwork, they're not the right person for you." Follow Metal on Twitter @Metalbond NYC, follow Amp @Pup_Amp, and follow Ruff @Ruffs Stuff Blog.I'm a 28-year-old bi-curious female, and I ended a three-year straight LTR a month ago.It's been tough—my ex is a great guy, and causing him pain has been a loss on top of my own loss, but I know I did the right thing.Among other things, our sex life was bland and we had infrequent sex at best. He says he's open to my terms—open/fuck-buddy situation—but things have quickly become relationship-ish.It's not that they're closeted—most of them go on to have girlfriends, and that's when we stop—and they make it clear they don't want anything sexual to happen. And how do you know they aren't closing their eyes and imagining that you're a woman when you're spanking them?And how do you know they're not bi—at least where spankings are concerned?
Never get tied up in your own home by someone you don't know.
And You Tube has a channel for everyone in the kink spectrum from gay to straight to trans to nonbinary and beyond!
" "is a great option for gay men," said Metal from the gay male bondage website Metalbond
We should also remember that no one is clairvoyant and that someone can hurt us without intending to.
But there's no intimate human connection, sexual or otherwise, that doesn't leave us open to hurting or being hurt.
(Also: There are tons of gay guys out there into spanking, SPANK.