There’s no set time for hitting your first home run.
(this doesn’t mean go forth and start boinking – it means go forth and use your head) I tell them – if and when you are presented with a “choice” it’s not likely I’ll be there.
It sounds like she wants the status of it, which is immature. Either way, the way to help your friend is not to judge or accuse her. It means things like knowing what you want, and being able to talk about what you want (and don’t want) with your boyfriend.
Instead, love and accept her, and help her to lead a safe life no matter what choices she makes. It also means being able to talk about these things with your friends.
My friend and I are curious what the 3 bases in dating are. She wants to get to base 3 with her boyfriend (whatever it is) but I think she is way too young to go that far.
So what age do you think she should be before she considers going that far?
You have all the time in the world to get that contract signed.