After all, you’ve probably accomplished a lot in your life without a man and are prepared to continue doing so.
Be careful not to sound like there is no room in your life for a relationship.
Such as, “A great evening for me is trying out the newest ethnic food restaurant with a few good friends and disagreeing about the controversial exhibit at the art museum.” Or, “Sunday mornings you’ll find me at the SPCA walking dogs and then off to my favorite breakfast joint for their fresh brewed coffee and chile relleno.
I like mine extra spicy.” (Okay, doesn’t hurt to flirt a little.) 5) You sound like a Debbie Downer.
As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.
They especially need to feel needed and like an important contributor to your life.
If you make it sound like you can take it or leave it, they are likely to help you leave it. “I love spending time with my friends, volunteering and reading novels.” When a man reads this his eyes glaze over and he moves on to the next profile.
As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I’ve seen (and done) it all when it comes to online dating.
I’ve seen how rewriting a profile, making it more positive, more aspirational, and less demanding can help the right guys find their way to your inbox. My husband and I met and married when I was 47 and I’m now spending the happiest years of my life. Bobbi invites you to join her Grownup Girls’ Night Out!
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