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Remember to toss away the sunglasses shots so it doesn't appear that you're hiding anything and please don't wear a bikini unless you're looking for a hook-up. There's no need to say that your divorce was just final after three years of divorce court, that your ex doesn't support you, or that he's a deadbeat dad. It's time to start fresh with a smile on your face and please don't talk about money problems. Remember the reason you went online was to meet someone offline.It also happens to be the color of the stop sign, so a man's natural instinct will be to stop to see your profile photo. My recommended word count its 125 - 150 words on a traditional dating profile and two sentences on a mobile app. When you meet someone online and click offline, take a chance and take your profile down in good faith to see where the relationship will go.Which photos should you ditch on your dating profile? A man has a split second to decide whether to write you or take a pass. Viewing a long-winded profile is painful for someone to consider. I know you realize that talking about your ex is an off-limits subject, but for some reason it becomes the default conversation topic. Some singles take the time make long lists of what they don't want in a partner. One of my best pieces of advice is to ask a question in your profile. Here's an example: If he or she is into hiking, you just might get a hiking date put on the calendar. After a few dates, you should be able to determine if you'd like to consider a relationship with him or her.If you love yoga, make sure you put it in your profile. I've found from working on profiles for the past two decades, that the magic number of photos to post in your profile is three to five.It will send the message that you take care of your mind and body and perhaps someone will ask you to join them at the yoga studio for a date. If you post anything less, a potential date might think you're not serious or might be hiding something.This is done through a questionnaire, a getting to know you phone call and/or Skype session, and some old fashion honesty.